Well it is difficult to keep this important romance for long in your and your love's life, you must seriously think of refreshing yourself with some tips given below. 1. 'Surprise' is the golden rule that you need to follow if you wish to sustain the romance in your relationship. Many a times, the relationship loses its charm just because things become so predictable and obvious. Keeping the element of surprise alive will help keep your relationship strong and going. And, you do not have to be a mystery woman/man for this. Keep throwing small surprises like wearing something unusual, or planning a surprise dinner and the like.
2. Take some time off and change your immediate environment. Pack your bags and book a room in some nearby hotel. You could also plan a short day trip to some nearby place. Being in the same home or same surroundings could also add to the boredom. Changing your immediate surroundings and giving yourself a much needed break could bring in a refreshing sigh of relief. Besides, it will give you two a chance to spend some quality time together.
3. Use touch therapy. Nothing can make up for the power of touch in a relationship. An unusual but pleasant touch could rekindle the flame of romance like nothing else. Give your partner a sensuous massage. You could use some essential aromatic oils for this purpose. For maximum effect, go in for aromatic oils such as lavender that have libidinous effect. Just stroke your fingers at the right places and you will be able to make the massage work for sure.
4. Work up your look. The pain to get dressed and look your best is something that lasts for only the first few years of the relationship. But, you need to avoid this if you wish to keep the romance quotient soaring. Dress well and look your best. There is no need for you to roam around the house in loosely fit t-shirts or ill fitted track pants. Wear body hugging track pants or shorts and look your best. You do not need to look like an immaculately dressed doll but a bit more prim and proper. Just a little effort and you will see your partner's interest increase.
Don't let the several years of being together steal the romance from your relationship. Try these tips and you are sure to sustain the love.